Hi! I’m Kelsey. I’m a Certified Professional Coach and Human Design Guide. My intention for this publication is to help you remember who you really are so you can experience a joyful, easeful, abundant and wicked-fun life. I also write about gluten-free, whole-food, plant-based cooking at Find Your Awesome Sauce and I write love notes to Manifesting Generators at The Manifesting Generator Playground.
I offer Private Coaching and Human Design Readings. You can book a Private Coaching Session with me here and you can book a Human Design Reading with me here.
This is the fifth in a series of love letters to each of the five Human Design energy types. You can read my love letter to Manifesting Generators here, my love letter to Generators here, my love letter to Projectors here and my love letter to Manifestors here. If you don’t know your energy type, get your exact birth time (from your birth certificate) and request your free Human Design chart here. If you don’t know what Human Design is, read this or listen to this. I originally wrote these letters in 2019, but I’ve updated them a lot since then.
A love letter to Reflectors
Dear Reflectors,
You are perfect exactly as you are now, and as you have been before and will be in the future.
You are not the same from one moment to the next, and that is simply magical. You are a fluid being, constantly shifting as the moon and the planets move and as you move through the world around you.
Please don’t try to lock yourself into being one version of yourself. That’s not what you’re here for.
You’ll be a different version of you whether you’re with Randy the Squirrel, Sam the Turtle or Bruce the Badger and whether you’re in Chicago, Dubai or Melbourne.
Some places will make you feel really great. Stay there. Some places will make you feel icky. Get out of there.
You are a totally unique, beautifully magical being.
You are everything and nothing.
You are everybody and nobody.
You know everything and nothing.
You feel everything and nothing.
You speak for everyone and for no one.
There is no one else like you.
You are a disco ball of awesomeness.
And you, my magical friend, are here to be delightfully surprised. Surprises will flow to you when you allow yourself to flow.
So, let go. Allow every moment to be a brand new moment. Allow every place to be a brand new place. And allow all of it to be an invitation to be a brand new you.
And when you do that—when you release the desire to control—life will show off for you in the most magical ways.
I love you.
Love,
Kelsey
P.S. To learn more about your totally unique Human Design, book a Human Design Reading with me here. To learn how to fully embody your Human Design and live a joyful, easeful, abundant, fun, soul-aligned life, book a coaching session here.
I LOVE the idea of being a disco ball!! They have all the fun sparkling and looking down at all the dancing people 😂
My mum is a Reflector so it really helps me to understand her. I know she likes surprises though she is so very fearful. I remember her in her thirties just being this flowery social butterfly. Very attractive but so little confidence in herself. She could have been an amazing artist or interior designer if she had had the opportunity. 💜