Hi! I’m Kelsey. I’m a Certified Professional Coach, Human Design Guide and House Therapist. My intention for this publication is to help you remember who you really are so you can experience a joyful, easeful, abundant and wicked fun life. I also write about gluten-free whole food plant-based cooking at Find Your Awesome Sauce.
This is the second in a series of love letters to each of the five Human Design energy types. You can read my love letter to Manifesting Generators here. I will be sharing my letters to Manifestors, Projectors and Reflectors in the coming weeks. If you don’t know your energy type, get your exact birth time (from your birth certificate) and request your free Human Design chart here. If you don’t know what Human Design is, read this or listen to this. I originally wrote these letters in 2019, but I’ve edited and updated them since then.
Dear Generators,
Hello, sparkly one. You are here to live a life led by your desires.
You were born into this body with the knowledge that you’re here to lift people up. As a child, you were celebrated for pleasing people—for giving away your favorite toy, for setting the table when you wanted to play, for hugging that relative that you didn’t want to hug. You got the message that you made people happy by sacrificing yourself.
There’s a better way.
The universe is constantly bringing you things to respond to—people, ideas, puppies, colors, smells, flavors, and more. As you encounter each of these things, your body responds to them. Naturally, the sounds “uh huh” (yes) and “unh unh” (no) come out of your mouth. Some of those things will light you up so much! You will feel yourself leaning forward. You may even feel joy bubbles flowing throughout your body. This is the feeling of a HOLY HELL YES! And you, my generator friend, are supposed to follow that feeling.
When you do things that light you the F up, your energy becomes super magnetic, juicy, irresistible and sparkly. Everyone around you feels it and it feels delicious. When you are lit up, you light them up. By doing the things that light you up, you elevate the world!
You’re here to elevate humanity—not by sacrificing yourself and your desires, but by following your desires, creating your own energy and letting your sparkle shine.
We NEED you to be lit up. And you do too. When you do things that don’t light you up, you’ll feel drained and blah and no matter how much you try to please the people around you or fulfill your “duty” or “be the responsible one,” you won’t be elevating anyone or anything.
Allow yourself to get lost in the things you love. Don’t compare yourself to your MG friends—we flow a lot faster than all of the other energy types. You’re here to dive deep into your things and to master them.
It’s not your job to figure out what’s next for you. The universe will always bring you the perfect thing at the perfect time. It’s your job to make sure your energy is clear. Take regular inventories of your life. Is everything in it a HOLY HELL YES? Anything that isn’t a HHY (Holy Hell Yes) has gotta go. So, look through your schedule and your closet and be brave enough to release anything that doesn’t make you feel so incredibly electric.
And finally, let’s talk about boundaries. Be gentle and fierce with them. You are ONLY here for things that light you up SO MUCH! This is your permission to say, “no, thank you” to everything else.
I love you.
Love,
Kelsey
P.S. To learn more about your totally unique Human Design, book a Human Design Reading with me here. To learn how to fully embody your Human Design and live a joyful, easeful, abundant, fun, soul-aligned life, book a coaching session here.
Thanks so much Kelsey! I’ve been a student of HD now for about 2 years and I love the way that you break this down. I’ve actually never heard it explained this way before and it’s really fun and refreshing to take in! My response led me to Substack and I was thinking recently.. hmmm I haven’t found any human design people yet and here we are now. Cheers to this magical system, thanks for your great work!
Beautiful and oh so true!!