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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

So much said here in so few words. And exactly the message I was looking for today. Thanks Kelsey!

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

You’re welcome!

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Phyllis Nichols's avatar

YES YES YES This is exactly right. Thanks for reminding me!

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

You’re welcome, Phyllis!

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Jaclyn's avatar

Kelsey Abbott, this is everything I've ever wanted someone to say to me. The title is perfect. The words are perfect. Thank you, thank you, thank you. HELL YES. 🙌🔥☀️🦁🥹❤️‍🔥

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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

Cosign.

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Oh yay! Thank you! 🙌

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Oh you’re welcome! This might be the most affirming comment I’ve ever received. Thank you!

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Bethany Bell's avatar

I love this reminder. Thank you! 🫶🏽

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

You’re welcome!

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Mika's avatar

Thank you for this lovely pep talk! Here’s to shining bright! 💫

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

You’re welcome!

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Stephanie Joyous Mind's avatar

Yesss 🤩 ☀️🎉

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

🙌🌈🦄

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Sandra Serrano's avatar

Love this: “Our dimming our lights isn’t going to make anyone else’s light brighter.”

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Thank you, Sandra!

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Heidi Joy's avatar

So good Kelsey!! This resonates with old me. 😓It took a long time to shine. I was always hesitant to take up space because I didn’t want to lose a connection with someone. If I as less than, then they could feel better about themselves around me. 🫣🙄🙄 I do not do that at all anymore but this internal mindset took years to correct.

Thanks for your essay. And I love the title!!🥰🥰🥰🦄 officially slapped 😅😘

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Humans are so funny. I'm so happy that you're shining now, Heidi! Keep going!

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Joyce Corey's avatar

Love it! Just what I needed to read today.

And the title is absolutely perfect.

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Oh good! Thank you!

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Ishita Singh's avatar

Hahah love the title! Gear job jolting us into this core reality. Nothing else matters coz I got unicorn bitch slapped today and imma shine like the f***ing sun 🌞

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Yessss!!!! Thank you for receiving this!

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Lily, LMFT's avatar

Yes, LOVE this message so much! It’s encouraging and it’s perfect for LEO season ruled by the Sun ☀️

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Yes! Let’s BE the sun in this season and always ☀️ 🦁

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Julie Hirt's avatar

Yes to this: “Our dimming our lights isn’t going to make anyone else’s light brighter.”

After receiving “a unicorn bitch slap” myself last night - re-reading this line this morning helped me turn the lights back on. And I’m upping the wattage, baby!

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Ohhhhh yes! Fullll watts, Julie!!!

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Kaitlyn Ramsay's avatar

Loved this, Kelsey! I've felt similar, and sometimes fall back into dimming my light. I always tell myself that when I shine, others may be inspired to shine brighter. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️☀️🌟

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

As MGs, we have the biggest energy so we definitely have a tendency to tone ourselves down to try to make others more comfortable. BUT their ability to handle our energy has nothing to do with us; it’s their job! Keep shining bright, Kaitlyn! I love your sparkle ✨

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Julie Babis's avatar

That’s a message I needed, Kelsey

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Kelsey Abbott's avatar

Oh good! I wrote this for you, Julie!

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Julie Babis's avatar

Thanks 😉

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